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When does feeling ‘Spiritually High’ become unsafe?

Thursday, March 24th, 2011

When does feeling ‘Spiritually high’ become unsafe?

Time for Change: Moving into New Psychology

Managing intense energy shifts

During my therapy work I am often faced with the question, when does feeling ‘spiritually high’ begin to be unsafe? This is a feeling described to me not just of a sense of happiness, but of an elated feeling, a sense of oneness with everything or a euphoric bliss like state. This is of course a wonderful state to be in however there is a line that can be crossed where those wonderful energies may be unsafe. The following article describes what is considered unsafe thinking and actions.  I have included information here to help you remain grounded, if you find you start to feel or act in any of these ways.

I have based this information on my clinical experience and training.  The information should be considered as guidelines only and not taken as medical advice.

Warning Signs

If you find you are putting yourself at risk in any of the following ways you may need to seek medical advice.

Neglecting the physical body?

Believing you don’t need to eat or drink

While you are in the physical body you need to make sure that you feed yourself a basic amount of nutrients and water each day. If you find that you really can’t face eating, then at least have a glass of fruit juice or milk to ensure that you receive some nutrients. If you find that you have not eaten for a couple of days, see your doctor for a meal substitute. Also if you find you are drinking excessive amounts of water this can be dangerous too; two to three liters of water per day is sufficient.

Believing you don’t need to sleep

If you find that you miss a full nights sleep and don’t catch this up the next day, or feel so energized and think you don’t need to sleep at all seek medical help. If you don’t sleep for two full nights you may need to take a sleeping tablet for a short time.

Hygiene

If you start to neglect your physical health and hygiene and believe you don’t need to care for your body you may need to seek assistance.

Putting yourself at risk?

A) Legally? If you find that you are breaking the law or acting in a manner which could get you arrested then you may need to take a step back and monitor your own behavior.

B) Sexually? Sleeping with lots of different people and not taking precautions.

C) Financially? Taking huge financial risks or wanting to sell your home/ possessions for hardly anything or purchasing many items you don’t need.

D) Emotionally? Ending a long term relationship suddenly for no reason, when everything has been going well.

What to do if you feel ‘too high’ ?

Avoid:

  • Stimulants caffeine, additives, colorants and preservatives in foods and drinks
  • Loud music (This will raise your vibration)
  • Intense yoga/ meditation sessions

Do not take:

  • Anti-depressants (these are designed to increase synaptic function and will increase your energy etc)
  • Stop smoking medications such as Zyban and Champix (these are anti-depressants)
  • Natural or herbal anti-depressants E.g. Hypericum (St Johns Wort)
  • Panadeine forte or other codeine based medications (If you require these medications, try and minimize the amount you take during intense energy times)
  • Illicit drugs such as marijuana
  • Hay fever medications should be minimized as they have stimulant properties

Also try and avoid making major decisions at this time, wait for the energy to balance then reconsider.

Things that may help:

Try and eat meat

Heavy proteins such as meat may assist you to feel more grounded. If you have been on a strict vegetarian or vegan diet for a while increase fish and meats into your diet gradually.

A Quick sleep

This works to lower your vibrational level and can ground the energies.

Stay in a quiet and calm environment

Avoid crowds and busy areas at this time and spend time alone if you need to.

Spend time in nature

Spend time outdoors in the fresh air daily. Walk barefoot on grass, sand or in water.

Continue to do ‘normal’ things

It may help you to feel grounded if you continue with your normal daily activities and routines.

Danger signs of delusional thinking:

If you find that you are doing any of the following seek immediate help.

  • Believing people are ‘out to get you’ or other extreme paranoia
  • Believing there is a political conspiracy only you know about
  • Considering maybe you are dead
  • Believing that you have to hurt someone and this is what you have to do for some other purpose or to save the planet
  • Believing you or others are possessed
  • Irrational correlations, e.g. “because my wife has her hair tied back today she’s out to kill me” or “if I pray facing my curtains every morning for ten minutes my cat won’t die”.

If you or someone you know start to think in any of these ways, go straight and get help. Also don’t try and argue with someone while they are in this state as they may be dangerous. If they are delusional, use any excuse you can to get them to a hospital then let the staff take over. Make sure they do not have any access to weapons and don’t let them drive. Also not to worry, people do not stay in this state for very long with the right help. 

Online Counselor Charity C-L Parrish provides online therapy, e-therapy and online counseling

For more information on Online Therapy please visit Charity’s website http://newpsychology.com.au

Time For Change: Moving into New Psychology

Tuesday, February 15th, 2011

The time for only having the opportunity to speak to a psychologist in their rooms, is coming to a close. For many this will always be a preferable option, but with the advent of the internet, web cams and programs such as Skype, there are now more new ways to seek out the therapy you choose.

At New Psychology® we are bringing this service to people. It is especially beneficial for people who have not been able to access traditional therapy in consulting rooms. For too long, there have been people who have ‘gone under the radar’ and have been forgotten. Generally psychologists have more clients waiting to see them than they are able to offer a service to. For many people not able to come into rooms they are not followed up, as we generally are not able to cope with referral demands.

Many people, who may have transport or mobility issues, are trapped at home with no support. There are also people who have such extreme levels of anxiety or social phobias they are not able to venture from their home; for these people virtual counseling offers an invaluable and much needed service. There are also people living in rural and remote areas all over the world who may not have a psychologist they can access for treatment- however they have the internet. For these people, Virtual Counseling offers an easy way to find treatment and for some people the first chance to get that much needed support that may have been lacking.

Rapid Change is Possible

The aim of psychologists is to assist clients to move towards a state of emotional health and well being as quickly as possible. Older forms of therapy, involved potentially many years of psychoanalysis and discussions of every experience the person had ever had. In the past, people would attend sessions every week or two for many years, often seeing minimal change.

With the modern therapeutic techniques, rapid change is possible. Most psychologists who practice today adopt the philosophy of trying to achieve the best results in the shortest time frame possible. This of course needs to be balanced carefully with the needs of the client. For some people you need to tread very slowly to start with if they are reluctant to enter into emotions and feelings they have suppressed for many years. With these people, you walk a steady path and try and encourage them to face those issues.

Online Therapy to Match the Clients Needs

Usually psychologist’s today are trained in numerous techniques and are able to match the therapy to the clients needs. There are still psychologists who practice in specialized areas only, such as ‘Gestalt Therapy’; this however may be too restrictive for the client. Certain types of therapy are only suited to certain types of people.

I am lucky that I received training in the basics of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and many other techniques which address the unconscious as well as the conscious. This allows me to work quickly with people to improve their psychological health, if they really want to be and feel well. This is moving psychology forward to enable rapid progress with treatment only expected to take a few weeks. I have seen this occur with the majority of my clients. Rapid and easily accessible therapy is the way of the future and virtual counseling is able to provide this service…

I look forward to meeting you in the virtual counseling world.

 

 

Online Counselor Charity C-L Parrish provides online therapy, e-therapy and online counseling

For more information on Online Therapy please visit Charity’s website
http://newpsychology.com.au